Category Archives: Pocono Weddings

information on weddings with a special interest in the local Pocono scene

Small Weddings, Big Ideas

There’s a lot of talk lately about small weddings, or as some like to call them, micro-weddings, or tiny weddings, or my favorite: intimate weddings. And there are many reasons couples are choosing to go small, and they mirror the reasons couples choose to elope. Now, that’s a small wedding! One motive is simply to [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Giving Meaning to the Moment

Don’t be afraid to tweak or omit ceremonial traditions. Wedding traditions come and go, evolve and change. There are some staples most  would probably never want to forgo – in both ceremony and celebration. I would never advocate leaving out the “I do” part of the ceremony (and in some states, it’s a legal requirement). [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

The path to an honest ceremony

Customs, values, mores and traditions… they all change over time. If we didn’t expand our horizons, we’d still be living in caves. For some people the tradition of marrying in a house of worship is absolutely the way they want and need for their wedding ceremony. And that is great, if that is who you [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Calling all nerds and geeks!!

Attention gamers, book lovers, pop culture fans, Harry Potter-philes and Buffy buffs, Zombie fighters and all nerds and geeks! Those words – geek, nerd – that were once pejorative, have become affirmative; it is now a good to be a nerd! You’ve gone mainstream! These two terms encompass quite a wide range of passions. They [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Giving Your Word

Going deep into choosing or creating the right wedding vows. Whatever type of wedding ceremony you are having, religious, spiritual, secular or civil, the exchange of vows is perhaps the most central element in the ceremony. It’s something I explore in depth with the couples I work with, and I’ve found they find it often [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Symbolism is everywhere

Each symbol has a story to tell, but whether it holds meaning for you is another story. As a celebrant, creating meaningful ceremony is my job (lucky me!). If I can infuse a wedding with special, specific symbolism, I’m a happy camper. When you think about it – just about everything in a wedding is [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

You don’t have to say ‘I do’ to the ‘Up-do’

As often as I officiate, I am still always struck by the beauty and meaning of weddings. Sometimes I even get a little misty-eyed, yes, after all this time. A wedding is quite a big milestone in life, and people make a lot of it. Well they should, but just how to do that is [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Getting Married on Mother’s Day

Most couples choose not to have their wedding day on a holiday. But I have performed a few ceremonies on various holidays, and it’s important to include some mention of it. Christmas is a big one, of course, and Christmastime weddings can be awesome. I’ve also performed ceremonies on the Fourth of July, Memorial Day, [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

A Conversation Worth Having – Love doesn’t have to be blind

I didn’t think I’d ever write about something like this, it is a difficult topic in many ways. But why should it be taboo in a wedding column? So, the question is, should you consider a prenup, or is it just for the rich and famous? A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, is a legal written [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

What does a wedding have to do with the environment?

Earth Day just happened again, as it has every year since 1970, and it’s a reminder to give extra thought to the importance of the environment. Many couples have told me that the natural world is something that inspires them. A walk in the woods, for example, may be one of their most treasured and [...]

Also posted in Ceremonies and Celebrations, Tips on Weddings, Wedding Ceremonies | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment
  • Blog Authors

    Lois Heckman

    Lois Heckman is a certified Life-Cycle Celebrant who officiates at weddings, funerals, and other ceremonies in the Poconos and beyond. She has performed hundreds of ceremonies and brings a wealth of knowledge to her work. Visit her website: ... Read Full
  • Categories

  • Archives